BORING,INTERESTING OR IS IT JUST AN ASSUMPTION...?

                                        BORING,INTERESTING OR IS IT JUST AN ASSUMPTION.........?

You see i have had  this conversation in my head for a long time.I am thinking it ,why not share  the thought as well,right?
Many of us don`t like boring people to say the least.We wonder what can we do together with them.We are afraid that nothing will be interesting.Afraid they will not like anything at all.It's a hard place to be,right?
Then my mind wonder are boring people just boring plain and simple.I know some say boring is not who one is as a person but  also how they present him/herselves.
It's my conclusion that boring people are not just boring but they are several things that make them to be referred to as " boring".

1.TRUST ISSUES.
You see when one has trust issues, and i mean lack of trust i others,those people will tend not to be open enough,afraid to try new things because they don't trust that the person or the people they are with will protect them when it comes to doing news things.Then they are closed up and only tend to stick to what they know best and hence we refer to them and who knows it could be us and  we are referred to as "boring".
a) Have a hobby not hobbies.
 So boring people tend to have a hobby and not hobbies and most of the time they tend to be good in it coz that  is the only hobby they know or do.
b) Afraid to explore.
Its one thing to be seen as boring as to be actually  be boring.This means they are not trusting enough to try something new especially if asked by someone else.

2.LACK OF CONFIDENCE(in trying new things and confident in the only thing they do all the time)
Yes sticking to what one knows best,for lack of confidence to try something new.Boring people like to stay within their comfort zone,so interesting people tend to try lots of things for what i guess is confidence and are not afraid not to be the best coz all they are trying  is to have some fun.
So then that leads me asking ,Are boring people competitive?

3.WORK WITH NO PLAY?
I might not be right but this is what i think.I think boring people are very competitive and will only engage in something they know they are good at and coz they are boring people they only tend to do one thing over and over.We all know what that leads to perfection and one being good at it.
So that brings us to work with no play makes Jack a dull boy.Then another question crosses my mind,Do some career turn some people to be boring or do some people get good career out of being boring?Doing one thing over and over.
Don't get me wrong but look at accountants,personally i think they are boring yet  we need them so badly coz they are  good in what they do.They have to be focused and the only thing they have to do is adding,subtracting,dividing and multiplying.(am aware they do more),don't think am discrediting anyone and actually very impressed that one can do something over and over without  getting bored and actually some tend to enjoy.Sounds boring doing this everyday yet we know its very important to have such people who are passionate enough to do this everyday 5 days a week for 30 to 40 years.
Another example is inventors.A  guy like Thomas Edison(light bulb inventor) tried this over and over until he got it right.So it it fear to try new things that make people be labelled as boring?

4.FEAR TO EMBRACE CHANGE.
For one to lead an interesting life then change must be part of life.Being able to embrace it, fear of change causes stagnancy and causes lots of us to be labelled as " boring".

You see when i started to write my head was more clearer than it is now.I thought by sharing my opinion will easy this clouded  head of mine but clearly i need to  continue another day one thing for sure i still know one thing for sure... we all need interesting people around us esp in our social life.

POWER WITHIN AND WITHOUT

Just coz it's not said doesn't mean it is not in mind,but what is more important is to try to watch your thought and see how they came and go.Is it peaceful or not.You see when you are at peace with yourself  and you are calm,you can be in peace with the rest of the world.
When one is young,the mind knows no evil.Then its easy to love,fall in love, be more patience and be even more optimistic.Then love is forever and it is easy to forgive and forget.There is more to life and everything looks bright.Not even hurdles of life makes one  not to try one more time.Giving up is never an option.There seems to be a solution to everything.

Then one grows up,things are not as easy as one would expect especially having more freedom and independence.As we get older we become more cautious and Our mind become like a robot programmed to do certain task.Falling in love is no long easy as trust is not part something that is pushed out of the mind.Patience is thrown out of the window.Basically one become more unhappy by all the rules they set.

The power of the mind is fascinating.The control of our mind is even more thrilling.

All the answers lie within us.You see things get harder when we think of difficulties.Otherwise this is what you see and experience.The power within us is greater that we can imagine.What is put in the mind is what is portrayed on the outside.
Its very hard not to smile and someone smiling at us,while the opposite is true.Just calming your thoughts and trying to be at peace when your mind wants to wonder is very important.
Being good and kind is not a sign of weakness.One act from strength and people can see the inner strength 
When good deeds are done,its the same deeds that fill peoples heart.The good and kind deeds are praised by those who happened to experience them.That is how good positive energy comes back to those who do and have put the mind to doing good.Its the vibe within us that we send out.Its a big circle of energy.
So what vibe do you send out there?
You see these kids are from the less privileged background.They love playing football and nothing stops them.The parents cant afford uniform but lacking broaden ones mind.So for them to differenciate the two teams,some took plastic bags cut them like vest and wore them and played football.I see kids who don't let hurdles of life stop them from doing what they like to do.Its in ones mind what you what do to.Do you look at a glass half empty or half full.ITS ALL WITHIN OUR MINDS.NO ONE STOPS US BUT OURSELVES.